Cathartic journaling of an adoptive mom.
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Rhythm
it doesn’t take much to make us happy. Parents learn to lower their expectation and become really easy to please, the more discomfort they experience on a regular basis. The things I long for these days are: respect for boundaries, gratefulness, and mind engagement… Both girls started school this week. Them having a routine is…
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A year with Evelyn
I started singing this song to Ivy tonight and she started crying. She said it makes her so emotional she doesn’t know why… both girls listened to my voice mesmerized as I sang this after dinner. I write this in awe because for the most part of the year, Evelyn asked me not to sing.…
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Doar biscuiți
O zi plină. Săptămana asta am ședințe online in fiecare zi. La 3:30 ii spui lui ivy ca am o conferinta si am nevoie de o ora neîntreruptă. Ivy se apuca de plâns: – Nu vreau sa ai conferinta! – De ce plângi? Ce-i baiu’? – Vreau sa stai cu mine. – Dar stau cu…
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The definition of love
That catchy phrase: “all you need is love” is not true. I have heard adoption representatives saying that parents need to be ready to offer abundant love. If there is lots of love it will all be alright. I disagree. Because there is a human limitation to this love proclaimed. So I guess we first…
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Irreverence
There is a lightness in the air In this whole turmoil of life, Conrad has my back. He is my number one fan. Encouraging. Serving. Generous with his time and gifts. He makes me feel safe and loved and seen and delightful. At the beginning of winter I have been all kind of tired and…
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Un caz de iubire
Spunându-le celorlalte mămici adoptive ca in inima copiilor noștri este loc de multa iubire, si pentru noi, si pentru asistenții maternali, chiar si pentru mama biologica, oi fi facut aluzie si la un soi de iubire si din partea noastră fata de aceste persoane de referință. Nu stiu sigur. Cert este ca iubirea copiilor nostri…
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Intalnire online a grupului de suport post adoptie
Printre pixeli si zambete discrete, dibuesc prea bine emotiile, intrebarile si bucuria latenta de a fi parinte – un rol mult dorit si visat care ne da un dram in plus de energie si curaj sa razbim in pandemie. Gazda deschide intalnirea cu lumina si zambete. Interactioneaza cald cu copilasii care mai apar inca in…
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A doua mama
Am venit cu inima si mintea distrase, nepregatite, deși am avut o oră de liniște înainte de Book club. Cu două saptamâni înainte fusesem așa miscata cand am citit capitolul despre destinul copiilor noștri adoptați, prin prisma poveștii împărătesei Estera. Cu speranța si credința reinnoite despre lucrurile care încă nu se vad, pe care doar…
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Praise
Psalms of praise In her grief and longing, Hannah worships the Lord. Gratefulness precedes miracles. Worship from a broken heart, precedes pure joy. — After everyone’s stomach is satisfied, giggles escaped, stories were shared, taste buds were tickled, I get up to clean the kitchen. Sometimes I feel the day was a success because my…
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Meeting the author of wounded children, healing homes
Thank you for letting your passion transpire in our zoom meeting today. How refreshing it was to hear you and your husband share! I must say, reading this book was like an icy cold shower. Necessary nonetheless. I think sometimes the adoption officials tend to soften the reality of trauma because they don’t know any…
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Stocking the pond
My blog stopped sending notification to my 100 subscribers, whenever I posted. Some plug-in updates just didn’t work anymore. I didn’t try too hard to fix it, because I didn’t mind it. I felt free to dump my thoughts without thinking that I’m bothering others with the purging of my mind. (Though people are free…
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Honest gratitude
Trying to induce the feeling of gratitude in our kids, especially by comparison, is not sustainable. It’s even dangerous. I read this idea in an article recently and I let it sink in. It totally makes sense. I don’t remember ever comparing myself to others as a kid. The article says that as we keep…
