Category: Leadership

  • Entrepreneurial mindset 

    Entrepreneurial mindset 

    Kids may surprise us many times over if we are open to the possibilities. I don’t presume to know what they will do in life, even as I notice inclinations, interests, aptitudes. It is delightful to notice and image the possibilities.  My left-handed junior, the visual learner, the technical and the architect type, she struggled…

  • Transfers and anxiety 

    Transfers and anxiety 

    A familiar sense of agitation stirs in my stomach. It usually means I am alert and ready to complete a big task. But if this feeling lingers it erodes my stomach and my peace of mind. I am determined to observe my feelings and let them be. Take deep breath and pray about the outcomes…

  • Intentional Connection Daily

    Intentional Connection Daily

    Listening & Sharing.  We could fill tens of books with our conversations. But we are not. I’m starting to see there is no need. I hope they will remember much of the wisdom I passed on, but I trust they will remember my heart.  “You will reap what you sow.” (Galatians 6:7) They may not remember…

  • Întâlnirile MomCo din Iris.

    Întâlnirile MomCo din Iris.

    Familiaritatea, rutina simplă, structura întâlnirilor, deschiderea mamelor, disponibilitatea echipei de organizare, toate ne ajută să ne bucurăm noi înșine deplin de fiecare întâlnire. Sunt toate un dar, inspirate de Duh. Ne trezim ca suntem intr-un gând pe subiect sau pe nevoile inimii noastre. Anul acesta am avut parte de încurajare și învățătură, de odihnă și…

  • Paying attention / Active listening

    Paying attention / Active listening

    “She doesn’t seem to be interested in what I have to say.” Humans are self-centered and insecure. Some grow out of it. Most don’t.  Jackie was telling me how some adults don’t pay attention. I am sure that she has been spoilt for choice and has had many adults hang on every word and engage…

  • Home economics

    Home economics

    The Game: 10 lei a week (it’s not about the monetary value). Pay taxes, tithe, utilities, rent, see about some savings and how much money will be left over for spending. Usually barely enough for a croissant.  On the chores chart: reading daily, homework, cleaning their room, their bathroom, set the table, clear the table,…

  • Fast turning tide

    Fast turning tide

    We are on top of the world. We have our health. We have each other. The course of life is steady. The kids are safe under our roof. The storm of adolescence hasn’t hit us yet. Their dependence is sweet and natural still. While they dare to brave the new beginnings, the grownup works, they…

  • Friendship with adult siblings

    As a mom I have intervened with logic between the occasional small sisterly quarrels. For the most part they have been pretty easy in showing kindness and grace and respect to each other. We may have modeled it, we may have encouraged it with words, we mau have prayed for it. But it’s not a…

  • Regret

    Regret

    I know better than to make grand gestures, or hasty decisions. And yet, here I was, talking with my daughters in the evening, trying a different approach to self-motivation, drive, responsibility, a steady course on self-management.  We were looking at our habits, and my gentle nudging over time, picking up the slack here and there,…

  • Do you know a wise person?

    Do you know a wise person?

    Driving home from church, the question the pastor posed at the beginning of the sermon lingered in all our mind. Jackie shared with us her answer. She believes that we, her parents, are the wisest people she knows. And she doesn’t give gratuitous compliments. She is very blunt and matter of fact. It is very…

  • MomCo leadership training Păltiniș 2025

    MomCo leadership training Păltiniș 2025

    There is a certain degree of joy and rest in the familiar. We returned to Păltiniș in the fall, with many of the MomCo leaders. We learn alongside those who are growing in their leadership roles, and there is room in the ministry team for fresh forces and new or young mothers with diverse life…

  • Feedback: Conversații stânjenitoare dar ziditoare

    Feedback: Conversații stânjenitoare dar ziditoare

    Când am propus tema am zis așa:“Subiectul de feedback este esențial de înțeles și practicat pentru lidere: să fim adorabile, să creăm un mediu propice dialogului și să setăm așteptări pentru comunicare. Să practicăm împreună în ciuda disconfortului.” De multe ori alegem sa tăcem pentru ca e mai ușor. Poate uneori ne întrebam:Este treaba mea…