Author: Violeta

  • The power of words.

    The power of words.

    What example do we set for the vulnerable, set to imitate, easily impressionable ones?  Do we pray for wisdom in our old age? Or we feel we lived enough to humble ourselves and open ourselves to correction and guidance from Above?  Kids play. And they use in their play bits and pieces of words they…

  • Centru comunitar

    Centru comunitar

    Cartierul în care locuiesc, are în plan să construiască un centru comunitar. Cel puțin în planul aprobat pentru construcții și promovat în materialele primite la cumpărarea unei proprietăți în acest cartier. Visăm încă totuși la un loc de joacă, pentru copiii care cresc mai repede decât planurile de dezvoltare ale cartierului. Există un sentiment de…

  • After ROM

    After ROM

    I’ve lost steam in the past. I got discouraged as things didn’t change or people didn’t respond as I had hoped they would.  Aware of the difference in my enthusiasm and vision as I return from a couple of inspiring conferences, and the outcome of my attempts to do something, I started small and I…

  • What is ROM

    What is ROM

    “Do not conform to the pattern of this world, but be transformed by the renewing of your mind” — Romans 12:2 My sister in law asked if she could read more about this conference we went to. Based on our conversation afterward, it sounded very intriguing to her. But there are no brochures. It has…

  • I *blame the renewing of my mind

    I *blame the renewing of my mind

    It has only been 12 hours since we got back from Macedonia, and though I didn’t make a conscious decision to practice disagreeing well, I did something uncharacteristic. Or something I had forgotten (how) to do. Speak up.  Speak up even when a group seems silent.  We often wait to disagree well till we have…

  • Ohrid

    Ohrid

    The tall mountains of Macedonia are rolling stubbornly in the clouds. There’s a blue haze of heat and humidity layering the peaks, in darker and lighter shades.  We left Ohrid.  Jackie is sleeping, dreaming of hugs and laughter. She has adopted an army of aunts and uncles. She has had memorable connections and conversations, has…

  • Not my merit

    Not my merit

    Is it the merit of the child who asks or the parent who gives? When we pray and God answers, how powerful do we feel? We take comfort in the fact that the Creator of the Universe is our Father, so generous, quick to forgive and slow to anger, so very loving… but it’s not…

  • Bethel

    Bethel

    We all survived a week of flexible schedule. Nothing started or ended on time. We went with the flow. The pullbacks were gentle and could have driven some timely, organized people crazy.  It’s odd that an entire group of 40 adult didn’t bring forth at least one people to react negatively to this extraordinary lack…

  • Window into my prayer room

    Window into my prayer room

    Blue ripples As I glide weightless through the waterI reach the end of myself And I know not what else to doBut let go. My eloquence and persuasion are useless I feel broken. I cry to GodAnd he meets me thereIn the perfect waterI ask God to reach my brother’s heart To wake him up To meet himLet him see…

  • Reconciliation

    Reconciliation

    The positive heartIn absence of anotherRemembers and feeds on the good  My brother.  Your servant heartYour quiet demeanor Not once have I doubted your love And yet. Conflicting signals You hurt.And I don’t understand. Coming homeI sense it’s worse than I thought As I put my self aside I see clearer. I start praying For healingFor understanding For peace Then I am moved With…

  • God, don’t waste my gifts

    God, don’t waste my gifts

    Don’t leave me stuck in my head. In my discouragement. In my depression. Pull me out by my arm. Throw me back into life. Point me into Your direction.  CS Lewis observed that war, famine & death ultimately brought out the best in people. Before I knew of this author, I had also instinctively detached…

  • About mom

    About mom

    Studying Jacob’s life this last week, we first looked at the father perspective. The next day, we studied then introspected about our own mothers. We were asked with clever insight, to name the first three words that describe our dad, or mom, and three words that describe our relationship with them. These words were our…