Category: Travel

  • Two weeks away

    Two weeks away

    My parents stepped up to the plate. When we left the kids with them for three days they coasted together, without firm boundaries, letting us catch up from where we left, with the routines of rest, food, washing.  This time they had to rise to the challenge and not wait for us, but actually make…

  • Recognition

    Recognition

    In my formative years I did not witness healthy balanced and consistent words of appreciation. I learned to make do without. I even insulate my heart from desiring such encouragement. But I do enjoy it in small doses when it’s not premeditated. After the hike, when two people were particularly recognized and appreciated for their…

  • Back to reality

    Back to reality

    Though the comfort is luxurious, and the conversations thrilling, the company enjoyable, I miss the simplicity of my life, of my home, of my home cooked meals.  Brian went from steady determination to do a difficult hike, many days in a row, to a wild let loose have fun, be silly, tired but exuberant. Ken…

  • Reconciliation

    Reconciliation

    It’s an old scar. Why bring it up? Everyone has forgotten. I have forgiven daily I have forgiven myself for getting caught in the middle I have forgiven themFor they did not know what they were doing.For a year I did not rush into healingNor tried to cover it up.I went away to nurse my broken heartAnd it has…

  • Control

    Control

    I was not confident in a loud way. I would silently do what I believed is good, without the need for affirmation. Humility pairs well with sustainable courage.  And it is disarming to let things slide, let people slide, and not feel the need to be right in the eyes of others.  Nothing can buy…

  • The last day of the hike

    The last day of the hike

    The trails blend in my memory. We’ve had high highs and low lows. Metaphorically and literally.  This morning we woke up more rested than I expected. The large shared room had double beds separated by a thin wood board. We even had a window above us  that stayed open all night.   This style rooms are called…

  • 3rd day of the hike 

    3rd day of the hike 

    We knew it was going to be cold, but not that cold. It snowed the whole day. The world is sizzling hot around the globe and we have snow in July in the Alps. When we packed, it was hard to imagine that we would need such warm clothing. Today we put on all the…

  • Hiking hut to hut

    Hiking hut to hut

    After sleeping at the base of the mountain,  a bit anxious about the adventure we were about to undertake, wondering about what  will be hard, painful, beautiful, what will push us to our limits, wondering if we packed everything we will need… In the morning we walked down the road to the bus stop that was going…

  • How are you doing?

    How are you doing?

    A question that most often doesn’t receive a good enough answer. We are too comfortable to get vulnerable. It’s a lot of work. It can be embarrassing. But then again, that is the point.  We are all carrying different weights. We are all hurt. We have different but very personal longings. Rest. True rest. Community.…

  • A week of service

    A week of service

    “I appreciate everything you do for me. I know sometimes it doesn’t seem so, because I am a kid, but know that I see how much you do for us.” Said Jackie at dinner time. We woke up early, I did at least. Jackie slept in and it was good for her. I made some…

  • Preparation in just the right amount

    Preparation in just the right amount

    In 6th grade I over-prepared for my biology lesson. We had to memorize all the terms by heart. I still remember all the bone names, or what the cells are made of, or the plants, or the digestive system, hearing, brain everything. It was fascinating. I never considered being a doctor but I loved learning…

  • Leadership and parenting

    Leadership and parenting

    Leaders are people who have influence. Whatever your personality type you probably have More influence than you think.  In order to grow purposefully, it is best to be aware of the influence you DO have. Accept it. Embrace it.  But before you ever lead anyone, you need to follow someone, and that first someone is…