Month: July 2019

  • How many hurts do we learn to live with?

    How many hurts do we learn to live with?

    It goes all the way back to Adam, and our primal sin as humans. But I never knew how much passivity could hurt, and how much havoc it can cause.  I have been silenced by shame. Because I couldn’t speak freely about what was going on, afraid it would embarrass others.  A few years have…

  • “When parents get angry”

    “When parents get angry”

    -“What book you reading, mommy?”I lift my eyes from the book and smile. After a pause I respond: – It’s called “when parents get angry”. She is five years old. And yet. She smiles at me with a goofy raised eyebrow and responds: “Really? That’s cool!” Getting habitually angry is like drug. One shouldn’t use…