We try to do what’s right but not from within, not from our deep and slow earned wisdom but by being bombarded with new ideas and gentle parenting misunderstood.
Oh, you can feel from a mile away a parent who feels in control of their own lives and emotions. Who glide with confidence. Who ooze kindness that is genuine not self imposed.
If we are honest with ourselves (and also recognize and process our own emotions) then our intuitions is not clogged and we can adapt as we go, and adapt as our kids grow. They need connection and confident guides through life.
Parenting at this stage is vastly different than nearly a decade ago. And I bet it will continue to evolve. The life dance steps keep changing. Let’s keep up with the rhythm.